Saturday, January 15, 2005

accurate personality test..

take this test. i swear u will not regret the time spent. i, for one, have found out wat kinda personality i have. subconsciously i knew it, but i was never able to explain or elaborate in detail on it. i am just not expressive enuf with words verbally. but after reading my results... my god...

here's the link
myers-briggs personality test

i got ISFJ
here he's my results

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Introverted Sensing Feeling Judging
by Marina Margaret Heiss
Profile: ISFJRevision: 2.4
Date of Revision: 20 Jul 03

ISFJs are characterized above all by their desire to serve others, their "need to be needed." In extreme cases, this need is so strong that standard give-and-take relationships are deeply unsatisfying to them; however, most ISFJs find more than enough with which to occupy themselves within the framework of a normal life. (Since ISFJs, like all SJs, are very much bound by the prevailing social conventions, their form of "service" is likely to exclude any elements of moral or political controversy; they specialize in the local, the personal, and the practical.)

ISFJs are often unappreciated, at work, home, and play. Ironically, because they prove over and over that they can be relied on for their loyalty and unstinting, high-quality work, those around them often take them for granted--even take advantage of them. Admittedly, the problem is sometimes aggravated by the ISFJs themselves; for instance, they are notoriously bad at delegating ("If you want it done right, do it yourself"). And although they're hurt by being treated like doormats, they are often unwilling to toot their own horns about their accomplishments because they feel that although they deserve more credit than they're getting, it's somehow wrong to want any sort of reward for doing work (which is supposed to be a virtue in itself). (And as low-profile Is, their actions don't call attention to themselves as with charismatic Es.) Because of all of this, ISFJs are often overworked, and as a result may suffer from psychosomatic illnesses.

In the workplace, ISFJs are methodical and accurate workers, often with very good memories and unexpected analytic abilities; they are also good with people in small-group or one-on-one situations because of their patient and genuinely sympathetic approach to dealing with others. ISFJs make pleasant and reliable co-workers and exemplary employees, but tend to be harried and uncomfortable in supervisory roles. They are capable of forming strong loyalties, but these are personal rather than institutional loyalties; if someone they've bonded with in this way leaves the company, the ISFJ will leave with them, if given the option. Traditional careers for an ISFJ include: teaching, social work, most religious work, nursing, medicine (general practice only), clerical and and secretarial work of any kind, and some kinds of administrative careers.
While their work ethic is high on the ISFJ priority list, their families are the centers of their lives. ISFJs are extremely warm and demonstrative within the family circle--and often possessive of their loved ones, as well. When these include Es who want to socialize with the rest of the world, or self-contained ITs, the ISFJ must learn to adjust to these behaviors and not interpret them as rejection. Being SJs, they place a strong emphasis on conventional behavior (although, unlike STJs, they are usually as concerned with being "nice" as with strict propriety); if any of their nearest and dearest depart from the straight-and-narrow, it causes the ISFJ major embarrassment: the closer the relationship and the more public the act, the more intense the embarrassment (a fact which many of their teenage children take gleeful advantage of). Over time, however, ISFJs usually mellow, and learn to regard the culprits as harmless eccentrics :-). Needless to say, ISFJs take infinite trouble over meals, gifts, celebrations, etc., for their loved ones--although strong Js may tend to focus more on what the recipient should want rather than what they do want.

Like most Is, ISFJs have a few, close friends. They are extremely loyal to these, and are ready to provide emotional and practical support at a moment's notice. (However, like most Fs they hate confrontation; if you get into a fight, don't expect them to jump in after you. You can count on them, however, run and get the nearest authority figure.) Unlike with EPs, the older the friendship is, the more an ISFJ will value it. One ISFJ trait that is easily misunderstood by those who haven't known them long is that they are often unable to either hide or articulate any distress they may be feeling. For instance, an ISFJ child may be reproved for "sulking," the actual cause of which is a combination of physical illness plus misguided "good manners." An adult ISFJ may drive a (later ashamed) friend or SO into a fit of temper over the ISFJ's unexplained moodiness, only afterwards to explain about a death in the family they "didn't want to burden anyone with." Those close to ISFJs should learn to watch for the warning signs in these situations and take the initiative themselves to uncover the problem.

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those i've highlighted in green pinpoints the areas which i'm guilty of, subconsciously doing and never really realising consciously.. when i stop to think, i'm like "hei, the statements are correct! so thats why i'm behaving like that!"

those in red, pinpoints wats not true at all. i'm sure i'm suited to many other jobs, hell i cant teach for goodness's sake! and dun fight in a confrontation? BRING IT ON!

anyway all i wanna say is, this is the kinda person i am, i was never able to express it before, but i do it now. for those who have misunderstood me, pls take a moment to read... i would appreciate it a lot..

Tuesday, January 11, 2005

GG!

http://nothing-in-writing.blogspot.com/2005/01/gender-equality-means-drop-kick-to.html

now THAT is awesome crap. lol. i dunno wat to say. its almost exactly the kinda thing i'm thinking about, yet cant explain in proper sentences. i have to admire this dude. his sarcasm is top-notch, his comman of english is... beyond excellance. i have to name him our very own real life Foamie(http://www.illwillpress.com)

i have no idea who the heck that guy is though, happened to be on the same blog list(http://www.thehottestblogs.com/index.php) as mine. and the description was rather interesting.

well i had to post this first since i forgot to post the before/after photos thingy >_>

soon.. hehe

Monday, January 10, 2005

reflections of the past..

"wah lau eh! ppl like me already got problem finding gf from own race, still got other race compete with me!"

man. that was like the statement of the month. well, back last yr though. sometime in may or june. was said by an ex-collegue, steve, when he found out my gf then, was chinese, lol. although he meant it in jest, he said it in the most 'du lan' and serious manner, making it sound funnier than was intended. i was like loling till i teared. haha...

sigh the gd old days...
that was when i was still with jacq. he was one who didnt seem to be lucky with girls much... i wonder how's he doing now..

on another note, do not eat too much delifrance food. its damn fattening. i mean, its like, i used to be uber skinny, and i was already a fast food junkie! that means i have high metabolism. i even worked in pizza hut before and was like eating pizzas on every workind day. haha. till i worked in delifrance. the food is evil... keep away from it! i guess its my fault i had a sandwich with wet fillings(tune/chicken mayo) every working day. soon i put on too much weight for even my metabolism to handle. at this point of time, damn fats/calories are still there =my metabolism is like burning the food i am recently eating onli, yes i still am a fast food junkie.
sigh

maybe i'll post a before and after delifrance photo when i get home tonight, lol